@Olo said:

Jude Doyle goes into much greater detail and has some important insights here.

This Is How You Lose the Sex Wars

Trying to pick a pathway through forty years of the ugliest conflict in feminism.

This is a nice reflection and really highlights the complexities of reconciling seemingly very polarised perspectives. It’s possible, and I think a lot of people overthink it. But also very difficult especially with so much distraction (sometimes intentional, sometimes not) from larger systemic issues, and social contexts constantly in flux.

@Olo she always wish for a tall dark and handsome man to sweep her off her feet and she wasn’t disappointed

@Olo on the hunt for Mr big the gum shoe never even considered it was a Miss big in charge

@Olo solid plan

@Olo always read the fine print on the drugs

@DFP you’re welcome!

I can also appreciate the implication (although not actually said as I have no wish to put words in your mouth) that penile insertion might be more about the insertee’s pleasure at being so helpless.

No implication really. It might be more popular amongst people who fantasise being the insertee, but it’s not exclusively for them then either (see: posts above on sounding, and also consider non-participants as either witness/voyeur characters or a reader/consumer of media).

@Olo I feel called out

@Olo I know I do

@Olo shrunken house wife

@Olo lol hard to argue that logic

@Deedee left on the shelf by your tormentor only able to move at his touch once it’s broken you freeze once more completely conscious unable to move only to watch as others are added to his stash